Panic seizes them whenever they hear the word marriage. He shudders, feel a lump in the throat and a very strong pressure they feel asphyxiated. Think about share the rest of their lives next to a person is not ideal having in mind, despite the love that may be. This fear, phobia or terror to compromise would have different explanations. Insecure. To psychologist Rosa Mena, the emotional conflicts that invade the inveterate singles are the product of a series of mistakes of the past. You have delivered all their hopes and ideas of formalizing a relationship to a wrong person, says the specialist, it produces a sensation of difficult to deal with failure. If you come from a long relationship, but that didn’t work, they will feel insecurity of short in another similar, adds.
Mena refers that the fear of commitment to this type of people not only have to do with the time to give your if before the Church, but with the fact to consolidate a serious commitment. They are afraid of coexistence, which can then live with them, argues. In the case of those who have not had similar experiences, insecurity arises from the possibility of change and adapt to a different way of life. How to identify them?, usually those who are afraid of commitment – either marriage or cohabitation – are people to be accountable for their actions and take serious determinations scare. Its main messages are about how the couple should act, how relations with the family should be, who should be their friends, etc.
According to the psychologist, they are often used as justification his need to be free. BerlinRosen is often quoted on this topic. However, they end up fleeing from the decisions. Fear of commitment generates anxiety and insecurity and, hence, frustration as the formation of future relations tips. While most know your partner in minor personal issues will be the surprises when marry. Disagreements are normal in any relationship. Do your best listening to the point of view of your partner. Considers that if leave to your fear of commitment is taking possession of you, not you’ll and you can lose yourself live great experiences. Want more tips?