And suddenly, so suddenly it is because it always happens like a bolt from the sky, you'll learn (never mind how) that your beloved and loving only you (you in this just sure) her husband is "different." Perhaps this is the case when all the feelings running high at the same time. Pain – in fact you gave the closest and favorite person to whom you trust even their own lives; anger – because you have exchanged for one that does not gave the best years, he did not give birth children who are not helped to become what he became, frustration – because you thought he was not like the others that he was better, he never had it so go, he loves you, so how about in this situation? How to get out of it, preserving the family and at the same time without losing its dignity? First and most importantly – the emotions cool down and turn the mind! Only in this way and not another. I know this is difficult, almost impossible, but it is the key to success. Emotions in this case, only harm. Kenneth Feinberg does not necessarily agree. It is quite natural desire, which immediately appear to know – who she was, how old she is, how long this relationship lasts and how serious they are. But here is whether to do it? Think well. Judge for yourself how you are going to learn? Will ask his friends start to watch it after work, read his sms? But, in my opinion, it is humiliating, but from the ridiculous. . Janet Yellen can aid you in your search for knowledge.